Fall semester topics

Surviving sexual assult or rape



What to Do if You've Just Been Sexually Assaulted:

1.) Get to a safe place.
2.) Contact someone who can help you: a friend, the police (112), the local hospital, or contact agencies that offer free of charge phone emergency counseling.
3.) Feel free to schedule an irregular (emergency) meeting with the university mental health counselor who can assist survivors to get adequate help off-campus.
4.) Please, get medical attention right after the assault (by visiting a hospital where they can treat any hidden injuries you may also had. In order for the police to begin an investigation it is advised not to shower, drink or eat, go to the bathroom, change your clothes, no matter how dirty or violating it may make you feel. These activities destroy important physical evidence in the event that you decide to prosecute the person who assaulted you.

Unfortunately only 5 % of such incidents occuring to college students get reported in the US. Please, read more about the most common responses here.

"Remember that no matter how much difficulty you’re having dealing with the assault, it does not mean you’re “going crazy” or becoming “mentally ill.” The recovery process may actually help you develop strengths, insights, and abilities that you never had (or never knew you had) before.

Talking about the assault will help you feel better, but may also be really hard to do. In fact, it’s common to want to avoid conversations and situations that may remind you of the assault. You may have a sense of wanting to “get on with life” and “let the past be the past.” This is a normal part of the recovery process and may last for weeks or months.

Eventually you will need to deal with fears and feelings in order to heal and regain a sense of control over your life. Talking with someone who can listen in understanding and affirming ways – whether it’s a friend, family member, sexual assault center staff member, or counselor – is a key part of this process." (Source: www.csbsju.edu)

Additional web resources

  • What to do step by step guide for survivors
  • Sexual violence
  • A Guide for friends & family of sexual violence survivors
  • Help and support for victims of crime
  • NANE Women’s Rights Association Budapest
  • Univet code of ethics concerning violence